Tuesday, June 28, 2011

My thoughts lately

Living in a third world country, I have started to think more about why things are they way they are, and what I can do to change them.  One thing that Richard and I were talking about today was that
It is interesting how materialism is such a part of our culture in the U.S.; we base so much of our personal worth and value on what we have, or what we do.  We relate best (or think we do) to those who have the same hobbies, or have the same things, the same level of income, or who have the same ____ just like we do.  While there is nothing wrong with finding things in common with others, I do have to argue that there is something wrong with only focusing on material similarities.
 After being here for less than two weeks, the people and culture here are making me realize how materialistic I am, and how much I have hidden behind “things,” and used “things” to help me feel valued.  I have noticed that when I meet people here for the first time, they don’t seem to notice how nice and clean my clothes are, or how I did my hair, or how fit I am. 
Here, these people don’t have as many material cares.  Many only have a few dirty clothes (that they value for the sake of having something to cover them), and it seems that all the locals have run-down homes, and very few material possessions. 
They are automatically accepting and welcoming.  There have been so many times that I have been greeted with a hearty hug, when it was the first time I had ever met the person before.  I have noticed myself even becoming a little uncomfortable with people wanting to get to know the real me…without valuing how I look or what I have, etc.  It is so shallow, and it kind of made me sick to realize how much I have placed some of my value on material things, when I always thought I didn’t really care very much about material possessions.

This week's Update!


Friends and Family, we have had a great week! We are still loving it here in Mbale, and we are excited about all of the projects we are involved in, and the opportunities we have here. 

Here’s our update:

 Richard:
Life in Uganda has been amazing. The people are amazing, the weather is nice, the scenery is beautiful, and the projects that we are working on are exciting! Devin and I have been the project leads putting together a 2 day business seminar. We have been working with a local NGO named “God’s Mercy” which takes youth in the Muluku area and trains them in things such as furniture making, hair cutting, door to door sales, etc. After much negotiation, we arranged for the business seminar to take place this coming Friday and Saturday at a local venue that we convinced to significantly reduce the cost of using the meeting room and providing lunch. Each day we will have about 60 participants. The first day will consist mainly of youth participants and the second will consist of slightly older men interested in business development. We are really excited for these business seminars because we are designing them to be the kick-off event for future business trainings that we will have at the church every Wednesday and Thursday from 6-730pm. We have WAY too much material to teach in just a one day training, so our goals are to give the participants just a few business basics and to get them excited enough to continue coming to our Wednesday and Thursday meetings that will be held weekly thereafter. We just have so much going on, and we’re so excited! We talked to a local radio station which has agreed to put announcements on the radio advertising when our weekly trainings will be. It will be a big deal! Also, we are going to go into their recording studio and record business seminars in 30 minute segments for them to play on the radio as a series. How cool is that?? We are not exactly sure how we are going to structure that, but I’m thinking that Devin and I will set it up as a discussion format with 2-3 Ugandans. So we would have a structured discussion in which we teach business principles through our discussion. We are really looking forward to the potential that is in that. As far as our weekly business classes go, we are also excited because we have met some really awesome Ugandans that we think could potentially continue to teach the business classes after we come back to the states. One guy’s name is Julius and he is a stud. He went through the God’s Mercy program where he learned door to door sales. After going through the program, he started a business selling books to schools, and it seems that he has done quite well for himself. The biggest reason why this is so awesome is because all of the businesses here are exactly the same. There is a huge lack of creativity in the business scene here in Uganda. You can drive down the street and see business after business and each is exactly the same. I talked to him for a long time last week as we were walking around Mbale, and he had a lot of good insights. We will be having him as a guest speaker at our seminars and our plan is for him and some other like-minded Ugandans to come to all of our trainings and be able to take over teaching after we leave. There is a HUGE need for business education here. We are very excited at the impact we can have.
Another exciting thing is that I am finally getting my ultimate frizbee club going. One of the things that has been holding me back has been trying to find a place to implement it that really has a need. There is a slum called Namatala that is right outside of Mbale where I have decided to implement it. This slum has many needs. One of the big problems of the slum is that alcoholism is quite high because there is nothing for people to do there. I am working with an NGO called “Child of Hope” that works in Namatala. I ran my proposal by them to organize an ultimate club for the youth that will meet twice a week and play games. He liked the idea as it would give the at-risk youth something to do. I am excited to be doing this also because I feel like there are a lot of things that I could do with it. In addition to just doing ultimate twice a week, I can combine it with education, or service, or whatever I want. It’ll be good.
There are many other exciting things that we are doing but I don’t have time to write them all! You will have to stay posted for more updates! Anyway, life is amazing here. I am soooo glad that we are doing this!!

Marissa:
On Monday, I was finally able to get my suitcase back!!!! After a week of wearing the same 2 shirts, and borrowing people’s skirts, I finally have my OWN clothes to wear, and my own shampoo, my own medicine, etc.  I am so grateful to have everything again!  Getting my suitcase was an all day affair – one of our country directors, Whitney, was nice enough to spend the entire day with me, just getting my suitcase.  We left in the morning, and drove four hours to Kampala in a very crowded, hot, stinky taxi (I believe there were 20 people in a van that was meant to carry 14).  When we got there, we were able to get to the airline office and get my suitcase without any problems (which was kind of refreshing, since everything here takes longer than expected), and then we got right back on a bus and drove another 4 hours back to Mbale.  It was long, but it wasn’t too bad, because Whitney and I got to talk to each other.  I really enjoyed bonding with her and getting to know her better.  On Tuesday, I had my first official full day of work here in Mbale, and I really enjoyed it!  I went along with a sanitation outreach group to a school called “Child of Hope,” where they taught the kids there about hand washing.  It was fun to be with the kids – they are so cute and friendly, and always happy to see us.  I love them!  When we first walked in, the kids just flocked to us, and I had so many kids holding both of my hands, and when they ran out of room on my hands, they started stacking up my arm.  It was so cute. 
Me and a few other girls got together and put together some survey questions to ask about women’s health.  We plan to ask these questions in the villages that we visit, to get an idea of the health needs of the women there. 
Richard and I and a few others went and visited the city of Bugobero to look at a school that a member of our church – Stephen – started a few months ago.  It is named the “Liahona Education Centre.”  They were in need of some serious help – we don’t know if we will be able to help them yet, because they have a lot of needs.  They need to have 200 students, but are only able to teach 60 right now because of the size of the school.  They have the walls built for a few more classrooms, but no roofs for those classrooms.  So, they need corrugated tin for the roof, plaster for the walls, and wood for the desks - it is going to be very expensive, this is why we don’t know if we can help them yet. 
            Another project I am excited about is we are learning some Ugandan crafts, and we will teach some women who have no income how to make and sell them.  So far, we learned how to make some paper beads – they are everywhere here in Uganda.  I think they will be really easy for the women to learn how to make.  








This week's Pictures!


Today, Richard and I went and worked at a baby's home, it was a sad sight, because the babies seem depressed, and you can tell they know they are orphans, but we were happy to be able to play with them and make them smile and laugh.



At our branch building

 Below: Richard and some other guys on the team decided to sell pancakes on the street, to see what it is like to be a street vendor here, and to try to raise money for their upcoming business training seminar.  They made $0.17, after earning back all they spent on supplies...

Monday, June 20, 2011

More Pics from Africa!







These are all from Palisa town except for the hair mayonaisse which was in the local supermarket

I don't know how to work this blog thingy!

The cutest kids EVER singing and dancing for us at Palisa town


First views of Uganda. This is outside of the capital, Kampala

More Kampala

Our fat kid ankles from sitting for two days straight!!



I don't know how to do this blogging thing, so all these pics are in reverse order. Sorry!

Saturday, June 18, 2011

We are in Africa!!!

Hello friends and family!!!!

The traveling experience:
Everything went smoothly as we flew through the states, but once we got to London, things started to get a little out of control.  We got there in the morning (but it was the middle of the night for us), and decided we wanted to tour London for the day (we had a 12 hour layover).  We got off to a slow start, trying to decide what to do, but once we figured that out, and how to use the subway, we got to London pretty quickly.  The one thing that could have made everything better would have been if we would have left our carry-ons at the airport.  But we were feeling invincible, so we took our backpacks and 2 suitcases, and trekked all over London.  And I mean allllll over.  Our goal was to go to the British Museum, but getting there turned out to be quite the challenge.  Not only were we exhausted from walking all around, but halfway through our walk, both of the wheels on our suitcases froze up and wouldn't turn anymore.  I was about in tears, but luckily, Richard has been working out for the past couple months, and he used his big strong man muscles to carry both our suitcases for the rest of the way.  By the time we finally got to the Museum, we realized it was time to head back to the airport, and so we didn't ever get to go inside.  Needless to say, we were pretty bummed.  We had spent way too much money for way too little fun.  I think the one good thing about that trip was that we had some fish and chips...that was one expensive lunch!  Anyway, when we got back to the airport, we found out that our flight had been delayed for 2 hours.  Needless to say, we were totally grumpy with the way our London experience turned out.  The last highlight (if you can call it that) of the trip was that I lost my main suitcase with all my clothes, medicine, toiletries, and more..which was pretty upsetting.  We are 6 hours away from the airport, and it is not easy to go back.  Luckily, they were able to find it yesterday, so we will be getting it in the next couple of days. 

Richard and I made it safely to Mbale, Uganda - we got here very late on wednesday night, and jumped right into the work the next day at 7:30AM. 

We went to a small village called Pallisa - way out in the middle of nowhere - and had an AMAZING first day experience - I feel like we really experienced Africa.  I couldn't believe my eyes, and the whole time, I just felt like I was watching a movie...except we were actually there! Here are some of the highlights from that experience:
 - being called "Muzungu" (white person) by many of the African people
 - Playing with and teaching the children
 - Being sung to by the children and the women of the village
 - Having the best dance party ever with the villagers - they were so crazy, and we loved it!
 - Interviewing the members of a polygamist homestead - Richard and I asked them about the children and their education, and other people asked questions about health and other topics
 - Eating an authentic African meal of rice, posho (boiled water and cornmeal - it makes a flavorless dough..ick), fish, beef, and pineapple - we felt that they were very generous to us. 
 - Traveling on an extremely bumpy dirt road for about 2 hours with 19 of us in one toyota mini van

Unfortunately, we didn't have time to upload pictures, but we will do so in a couple days!

Monday, June 6, 2011

1 week!

(Us being excited)

Its official! Richard and I are leaving for Uganda in exactly 1 week and 1 hour (not that I'm keeping track or anything)!  We are excited and nervous, and very much looking forward to it!

This week, we will be packing and cleaning our apartment, moving everything into storage, and getting our suitcases ready for our trip! Its a lot of stuff to keep track of, but its all starting to come together.

We are really proud of ourselves, because we have already gotten a lot of the packing into boxes done. Usually we don't start packing until a couple of days before we have to move, so this is an improvement (this will be our 6th move since we have been married..ugh).

Anyway, wish us luck as we enter into the final stages of craziness before we go!