Monday, June 3, 2013

Lacey laughing her head off

I had to share this video, it is too funny - I have been watching it over and over!

We went over for dinner with some people in our ward yesterday, and their two little boys immediately started trying to entertain Lacey.  She was acting kind of agitated at first (probably because she's not used to other kids), but then she started laughing SO hard! It was so unexpected - she has never laughed that hard in her life! Literally!


We love this little girl!

Thursday, May 30, 2013

The Crown on Your Head


I had a special moment with Lacey this afternoon. 

I was reading her some stories to help her wind down for nap time, and I decided to read one of my favorite books to her - "The Crown on Your Head" by Nancy Tillman. 


It is such a good book! It has the most beautiful words - "On the day that we met and I put you to bed, I noticed a crown on the top of your head...I always knew just what your crown meant, it said that you were magnificent.  That means you are grand from your toes to your chin!"  The book is all about the value that you have simply because of who you are. 

I read it to Lacey almost every day, but for some reason, today, the words just sunk in. Today, I read to her, feeling like I was saying the words from my heart, and as I did so, I had this powerful feeling that Lacey is such a special person, and that she has infinite worth.  I just know it's true! Words just can't describe the feeling I have. This little person is so...amazing. 

Love


I don't know if it is like this for every parent, but for me, I have gradually loved Lacey more and more.  I loved her so much when she was first born, but I wasn't sure if I felt it in the way that so many parents talk about, where they would do anything for their child, and just feel this automatic, intense love with "every fiber" of their being.  I almost feel guilty about that, except that I know that oftentimes, love is learned - its a choice!  I know that love deepens and grows when you serve or make sacrifices for that person.  That kind of love becomes very strong.



I have been feeling this "deepening of love" for Lacey as I have started to embrace my role as a full-time mom more lately.  For awhile, I felt a little sad that I had ended a chapter in my life - the chapter where I had the freedom to do anything I wanted whenever I wanted, I had career goals and enjoyed my job, had a social life, etc.  It is a huge adjustment (just like everyone says) to be a mom, and you give up a lot of your old life, and your old self.  BUT. As I have started to let go of that old life, and accepted the fact that things will never be the same, I have had a paradigm shift.

I'm embarrassed to admit this, but I'll be honest. For awhile, I felt that it was unfair that I had to stay home all day, doing menial chores and talking with a baby all day, and frankly, I felt a little resentful.  I told Richard that I felt a little jealous of him, because he "gets" to leave every day, and do work that earns money and is appreciated and validated.  (Mind you, Richard is amazing at showing appreciation and validation for my work).  While I was telling him this, I realized how completely  selfish and ungrateful I sounded - I immediately wished I hadn't said that.  I am SO grateful that Richard can work, and has a great job that provides for our family's needs without me having to go to work! Because of that, I am able to spend time bonding with Lacey all day long! I know there are so many moms out there who would LOVE to be in my position.  I don't want to take this blessing for granted.  It truly is a blessing.

As I have kept this in mind, and really made an effort to enjoy this time with Lacey, knowing that I am doing what Heavenly Father wants me to do, I have been able to truly feel the joy of motherhood.  I love spending time with Lacey and getting to know her sweet, funny little personality. My love for Lacey is growing exponentially.  



Tuesday, April 9, 2013

Our Latest Goings-on

Well, a TON of stuff has happened since my last post, and, while I'd like to think that I'm going to go back and be able to detail all the major events, I know that probably won't happen and I'll just get overwhelmed by the thought of all that writing and remembering.  SO, instead, I'm gonna do the classic "list of the major high points" of the past 6 months.

- Richard had lots of job interviews each month of his last semester of college, he got a good number of job offers, and ultimately decided to take a marketing position at a company called Precoa in Portland, Oregon (which just so happens to be where my parents/family live).
Richard and I got Cafe Rio to celebrate him officially accepting his job at Precoa!


- I had Lacey (her birth story is in progress, but I'm a little overwhelmed with all the details I want to remember, so it may be a while...)



- My 5k event (which I planned for the Tobacco Prevention and Control Program at the UCHD), the "Cold Turkey Fun Run" happened the week Lacey was born - it represented months of planning and effort, and I have to say, I was very proud of and happy with how it turned out! My co-workers completely took over for me in making it all come together, and we had a great turnout! Here is a link to an article about it. My sweet family did the run - very validating for me!


- We had our families and Max and Rebecca (who are like family!) come out to Lacey's baby blessing just one week after her birth (amazing./wonderful and overwhelming at the same time!)


- I quit my health educator job (in tobacco prevention and control) at the Utah County Health Department

- Richard graduated in December (and is walking this month)!!!!!!

- We went to Pennsylvania for Christmas with Richard's family, which I was originally stressed about with a new baby and being right in the middle of us packing to move, but turned out to be really nice and just what we needed.

 Our crazy packing/post baby mess


- We got back from Pennsylvania, and less than 24 hours later, we were driving away from Lacey's first home with bittersweet emotions and a packed-up Uhaul truck (thanks to everyone who helped - we couldn't have done it without the help from our amazing family and friends).  We were sad to leave our apartment (which we had lived in the longest out of all our other apartments - a year and a half), but also SO glad to be out of it - it was also the tiniest apartment we'd lived in out of all of our dwellings (not including Uganda). 

- We moved in with my parents in order to save up some money and look for/buy a house.  We have loved being with my family, and are going to be sad in a lot of ways, when it's time to move out.

- Richard started his job in January, and loves it and his co-workers - it is an awesome company! He is enjoying the environment and starting to get into some projects he really enjoys.

 - I have been adjusting to/loving life as a stay-at-home mommy. It has been wonderful and exhausting to be able to be with Lacey all day every day. We are currently working on her sleep habits/schedule... any recommendations for good books to read on getting baby to stay asleep for longer than 2 hours at a time through the night?

- We found an awesome townhouse in Tigard that we immediately fell in love with - it is pretty much everything we wanted (the location isn't my favorite, but other than that, it's perfect), and we are so excited to have our own place! And to have SPACE! and places to put EVERYTHING! This is a big deal.  We are supposed to close on our house this week or next, and are SO excited!!! Pictures to come!






Wednesday, September 26, 2012

34 Weeks...and I'm huge

I'm just 6 weeks away from my due date! So crazy! Its always weird to look back at previous pregnancy profile pictures and to realize that my tummy really is growing! I never feel like I am getting bigger until I see pictures, or until I realize that my clothes aren't as comfortable as I remember them being...


 


Baby is soooo active! I can't help but wonder if this is normal... of course, I'm sure its nothing to worry about, but I just wonder if this is how most babies are!  She is seriously allllll over the place.  In the evenings (lately), she is the most active, and when she's really busy, you can see her - it looks like I have popcorn popping in my stomach.  Or just a crazy baby doing internal TaeBo....can I count that as my daily exercise?

In other news, we are enjoying our hypnobabies class - we've finished 3 of the 6 weeks of class, and I feel like I am really gaining some useful tools for my "birthing time." It is such a cool experience to go into hypnosis (which sounds really kooky, but its just deep relaxation and visualization).  I can totally see how it will be effective for me!  I tried using some relaxation techniques earlier this week before I gave a presentation at a Board of Health meeting (because I was starting to get butterflies), and it totally worked! Once I let myself relax, I was able to let go of my nervous feelings and give my presentation confidently.  So cool!

Work has been kind of crazy this past month! At the beginning of September, I planned a PTA"Health and Safety Summit" for all Utah County PTA members, and it was a lot of work!  It turned out really well though - everything went smoothly, and we had a good turnout, so I was pretty happy with it!  I kind of like event planning, I'm finding out...

Speaking of which, I am planning a 5k for November!  I'm really excited about it - it has been really fun to get creative and just put it all together.  I am feeling so lucky to have a job that allows me to be creative in the ways I accomplish my assigned tasks.  Its been a cool experience to realize that I can think outside the box, and to have the funds needed to carry out my ideas.  So fun! I'm just hoping that I can plan everything out really well so that everything goes smoothly (I will have just had the baby, and so I probably won't be able to do much in the way of helping get ready for the run). Wish me luck!

Oh, and if you are interested, there are still some spots open in the race if you want to register (Its free)! www.coldturkeyrun.pbworks.com.








Sunday, September 2, 2012

31 weeks and Happy 4th Anniversary!


I'm 31 weeks now, and am only 2 months away from my due date! I can hardly believe it!  Baby has been soo busy lately.  I would LOVE to see what she is doing all day, it seems like she is constantly moving! 

I posted this on my facebook, but this week, I was sitting in a training, and baby was all over the place! I tried to cover up all the movement by putting my hands on top of my stomach, but afterwards, this lady was like, "Is that baby just going crazy inside of you?" and then she told me that she had seen my stomach moving a ton during the training!  Hahaha.... kind of embarrassing, and sooo weird!  But I love it, I love knowing that she is an active baby, and somehow the constant movement is comforting to me. 

I'm starting to bump into things more with my tummy, and realizing that I can't get through narrow spaces anymore..   Oh, and also... I have started growing out of my early maternity clothes! Now THAT is weird!  and I'm able to wear things that I thought I'd never be big enough to fit in.  Pretty crazy.  

In other news, Richard and I had our 4 year anniversary on August 22! I can hardly believe we've been married that long!  It has been the most wonderful and happy 4 years of my life.  I love that man so much!  We have really grown a lot together, and I love looking back at how we have changed since we were first married.  We have been through so many great experiences together already, and I am so grateful to know that I will always have him by my side through future experiences.

Richard totally surprised me this year with our anniversary date.  I had absolutely NO idea what his plans were, other than we were going to go somewhere overnight.  We ended up going to Vegas!  I still have to laugh when I think about that - it was so unexpected!  Richard was really proud of himself though, for surprising me to the extent that he did. And I was super impressed!

He picked me up after work, and had packed my suitcase, brought me dinner, and everything.  He told me to prepare myself for a drive anywhere between 2 and 12 hours.  He really wasn't going to tell me where we were going until it was obvious we weren't going anywhere I had been expecting. He finally told me where we were going around the time we were passing through Cedar City! I could not stop laughing because I was so surprised and excited.  

Richard got a great deal on a nice hotel room, and we stayed there for 2 nights.  Sadly, it rained all day on our anniversary, so we weren't able to walk around the strip as much as we would have liked, but we did get to see the Venetian, Palazzo, and the Bellagio. It was kind of fun to walk around all the ritzy shops and imagine what it would be like to spend $3,000 on a single pair of shoes (that's more than we spent on our car!) 

Our hotel had a nice theater inside, and so we got to see the new Batman movie.  Oh, and of course, we tried out the buffet at our hotel, which had really good food!  You know what they say... when you go to Vegas, you gotta try out the buffet!
 
 We played a game where we tried to find the two worst looking foods, and the two best looking foods, and then try them all.  We did pretty well at finding some nasty-looking and tasting foods...  
Richard's gross foods


One of my gross foods


The view from our room

Gondola rides inside the Venetian hotel!

                            These sandals were cute... but kinda pricey!

Really interesting suit outfit in a high-end store...

Fountains at the Bellagio





30 weeks

Here's the latest tummy picture! I'm still feeling pretty good, just getting a little cramped!  Oh, and my feet are swollen and hurting all the time.  Other than that (which still isn't much to complain about) I feel great.  We've (still) been loving feeling baby move all the time, it is exciting every time.  Apparently, she is as big as a head of lettuce, is 18 inches long, and weighs 3.2 pounds (according to my "What to Expect" App).  She's growing up so fast! 

The past couple weeks have been crazy and fun!  We went to Oregon for a week, and while we were there, we did a family backpacking trip.  It was a blast!  Summer backpacking trips have been a tradition in our family, and they have always been looked forward to.  We haven't done a trip since the summer I got married (4 years ago!), and so we were excited to be able to go on this one.  I was a little nervous about going, being pregnant and all, but the hike was easy, and Richard was so kind to pack in our nice big air mattress so I could sleep comfortably.  We camped for 2 nights and it was perfect! I loved having that time with the family without any distractions or anything to do but just be together.

After we got back from our trip, the next day my sisters and mom threw me a baby shower.  It was so awesome to see so many of the people I love so much!  One thing I really loved about the baby shower was something that Rochelle decided to do - she invited people to write a blessing or wish that they had for me, and to find a special bead or charm to go with it, so that I could put them onto a bracelet that I could wear for positive energy and encouragement leading up to the birth, and as I step into motherhood.

We also did a girls' day with my mom and sisters - we went to the Pittock Mansion in Portland, and imagined what it must have been like to live in such luxury. It is a beautiful building! 

Then we came home and had a tea party with my Aunt Sandy and Cousins Birgitte and Kirsten.  We all felt sooo refined.  The tea was delicious, as were the finger sandwiches and scones and other little desserts.  We had so much fun making and eating that food!  And of course, we had to finish out the ultimate girl experience with a chick flick - Pride and Prejudice (the one with Kiera Knightly).   So much fun!

Rochelle took pictures of both the baby shower and tea party set up - look at her craft blog to see them!

Oh, and we got to see some of our best friends while we were there - I went out to breakfast with my best friend from high school, Michelle (love her!), and the next day, we got to see our friends Max and Rebecca and their ADORABLE baby Charlie (future husband of our daughter).  We went to the Original Pancake house in Portland (sooo good!) and had fun catching up with them. 

We had such a blast being in Oregon with the whole family! We were definitely sad to go back to normal life, but I feel like we really lived it up while we were there! 




Monday, August 6, 2012

27 Weeks

I have been slacking! It's been almost 10 weeks since I last posted... woops!  I just can't believe how FAST my pregnancy is going! The weeks are just flying by.  I'm officially in my THIRD trimester!  ..so crazy. 

We are getting SO excited for our baby girl to come!  It is just becoming more and more real as it gets closer and my tummy gets bigger. Speaking of which... here's the latest tummy picture:


A few things I've been thinking about lately: 

- I've known for awhile (pretty much since I got pregnant) that I want to do a natural birth.  I've heard really good things about hypnobabies, and feel like it would be the best method for me.  Richard and I are starting the class in September, and I am really looking forward to it!  

- I've been really grateful for a book that Rochelle let me borrow, called "The Gift of Giving Life."  It's a book with short stories and essays that are all focused on motherhood and birth.  I feel like my outlook and appreciation for my role as a mother (and for the mothers around me) have grown deeper as I have read and reflected on, and been uplifted by the stories in that book.  Every time I start to feel overwhelmed or scared at the thought of giving birth to our daughter, I read a few of the stories in the book, and the negative feelings go away; I have renewed confidence and motivation to be a good mom, and to have a good birth. 

- Starting a business - Richard has been working so hard for the past couple months to get things in place to start our cake business.  I am so proud of him and all his work to get it going.  It has really been an amazing growing experience and we have seen so many tender mercies already. It is kind of stressful, thinking about starting a business and having a baby around the same time, but I feel at peace about the way things are timed.  I know it is all going to work out, and it will be exciting to see how it all unfolds.  





Monday, June 4, 2012

18 weeks! Its a....

18 weeks pregnant

I'm still feeling really good - in fact, I think I just keep getting more and more energy!  I think I can do this pregnancy thing!   In the past two weeks, we've hit some exciting milestones:

1. We found out our sweet little baby is a GIRL!!!!  We are so excited!  I have been thinking it would be a girl for some time now, and so I was not too surprised when the ultrasound lady told us it is a girl!  We were kind of surprised that we could find out so early (16 weeks) what our baby's gender is, but when we learned that we could, we jumped at the opportunity (and we're so glad we did... we stink at waiting for surprises).  I can't wait to start making her little dresses and skirts and headbands....! If anyone knows of some awesome DIY baby girl clothes tutorials, I would love to know about them!

2. I started to think I felt baby kicking about two or three weeks ago, and in the days since, the kicks have gotten stronger, and I am positive I can feel the baby moving now!  Up until today, I haven't been able to feel baby kick with my hand at all, but tonight I felt her moving around, and so I put my hand where I thought she was, and she gave me a good kick!  It was awesome.

3. I officially have a bump, and have moved into maternity pants... I don't know why I didn't do that sooner, because they are AMAZING.  I have been pretty uncomfortable in my normal pants, and so when my sister Rochelle told me she had piles and piles of maternity pants, I got really excited. She gave me a few pairs, and it has just been dreamy ever since.


In other news, we have been LOVING the spring (summer) weather - it has been so nice and warm, and we can't stay inside.  Over the memorial day weekend, my brother Tayler and his new wife Heather came down from Rexburg to visit, and we all went camping with Rochelle and BJ and their two little boys.  We went to Hope campground up in Provo Canyon, and had a blast together!  It was R & BJ's first camping trip with their kids, so we were all glad that it was a good experience!  We had so much fun together, and especially with those little boys.

This weekend, Richard and I spent most of the time outside, it was awesome!  We went on a picnic date on Friday at Bicentennial park (a magical place), and then watched a movie back at our place with Rochelle and BJ (we love them).
 On Saturday, we spent the whole day with our good friends Nic and Janey Ratto (we love them too!).  We had been talking about doing a tandem bike date with them for a long time, and so we finally did it!  We went from BYU all the way to Vivian Park and back...a 23 mile bike ride!  It was a ton of fun.  Then, because we worked up such an appetite, we went out to Red Lobster with the Rattos (YUM), and went back to our house to watch a movie - Red Tails.   Overall, we have had a very fun and fulfilling weekend!  We love Utah in the summer!




Sunday, May 20, 2012

16 Weeks!

16 weeks pregnant! 

In the past couple of weeks, I have been feeling great!  I have much more energy than I did during 1st trimester, and I have had more of an appetite.  We went in for my 16 week prenatal appointment on Friday, and heard Baby's heartbeat again (still a wonderful sound!).  Everything seems to be going well!  We also found out that we can find out our baby's gender on Wednesday!  Its so crazy to me that we can find out this early!  We are super excited and can't wait!  We want to know though.... what do you think it will be?  Cast your vote on the poll to the right! :)   And just for fun, we are willing to hear any name suggestions (no promises though).  


Below are a couple pictures of what we did this weekend, just to take advantage of my renewed energy.... We hiked to the top of Y mountain!   I am SUPER sore from climbing up that mountain... for anyone who has done it you know why - It is pretty much a steady incline the entire way! It was soo hard!  But we had fun, and are glad we did it.  





Sunday, May 6, 2012

Week 14!



Its so weird to see the changes in my body since last week! Although I don't feel like baby has grown a ton, I can see that he or she has!  That makes me so happy.  My pants have gotten tighter in the past week, and I'm getting more uncomfortable in my normal clothes.  I can't wait to get through this awkward/chubby stage, and actually look pregnant.  Oh, yeah.  We are pretty sure that baby is a girl...but we won't find out for another month or so.

 I have been trying really hard to stay active during my pregnancy, and Richard has been helping me a lot to reach that goal - I went running three times this week, and Richard ran with me two of those times.  We've also been walking a lot - the path that goes behind BYU campus is GORGEOUS.  Every time we walk on it, it gets more and more beautiful and green and flowered.  We love it!  I'm still feeling pretty good, still tired, but happy!

Sunday, April 29, 2012

Pregnant!

We are so excited to announce that we are expecting our first child at the beginning of November! We could not be happier, and feel so excited to finally be starting our family! 

 I am now 13 weeks pregnant, and have been feeling pretty good! I have had really manageable morning sickness (I really can't complain), with some definite food aversions (like BBQ anything), but I haven't thrown up or even gotten close to it.  I'm feeling pretty darn lucky, especially since I'm working full-time, and know I would really struggle if I were sick all the time (as I'm sure anyone would).  I think the only challenge worth mentioning is that I am completely exhausted all the time... but even that has been getting better in the past week or two.  Basically, I'm feelin' pretty good!  

I had my first prenatal appointment last Friday (April 20), and we got to hear the baby's heartbeat for the first time! It was such a wonderful sound, and had us both in tears.  We were overjoyed!  I think it was just a relief to know that this is all real, and that I'm not just imagining it! Up until then, I kind of just felt like I was lying when I told people I was pregnant. Now it feels a little more real! 

13 weeks pregnant! 

I'm getting really excited to start seeing my little bump grow more.. right now, I can pretty much only see a "bump" by the end of the day...but I'm pretty sure its really just because I'm just bloated, since it goes away by the morning.  Oh pregnancy.  Its fun to see and feel the changes in my body, and to realize that its all happening because of this little baby growing inside me.  Such a crazy thought, and I'm still not used to it, but I'm guessing that will change the further along I get.  

A year of New-ness

I can't believe it, but it's been a full year since I graduated! I've been thinking a lot about the past year , and all the new things that Richard and I have experienced.

-Graduation
-Unemployment
-Visiting foreign countries
-Living in a foreign country
-Experiencing a new culture
-Unemployment
-Getting my first real job
-Quitting my first real job
-Getting a grownup job
-Having surgery
...oh yeah...and getting pregnant!

Maybe some time I'll get up the courage to actually write about each of these things, but for now, suffice it to say that we've had a lot of change and (hopefully) a lot of growth because of all of this change.

I can hardly believe how fast this year has gone by.  I feel like we just got back from Uganda, but it has almost been a year since we left.  Its crazy to think about how we had no idea what to expect, or what it would be like before we left, and now it has become a big part of our lives, and we think about it all the time.

 I love looking back at all of these experiences, and seeing the change that has come because of them.  There is something so comforting in knowing that you went through a challenge and gained something(s) from it.




Tuesday, April 17, 2012

...And We're Back!

I just found this post I wrote forever ago... I'm not quite sure why I never posted it, but... here it is.


Well, we have now been home from Africa for a full month, I can hardly believe it!  Now that we're back, and I am looking at our experience with a little distance between now and then, I am really missing it.

I didn't think I would miss Uganda  when I got back...at all.  I'm ashamed to say it, but I was so attached to "home" and wouldn't let myself forget it.  I compared everything with what I was used to in the states, and therefore I really struggled.  I knew that I needed to let myself become engrossed in the culture, and to some extent, I was able to do that.  But I still struggled.  So, when we started our journey home (2.5 days of raveling...lovely) I was sure that I would adjust immediately, and I wouldn't miss anything about Uganda.


 I was soooo ready to come home when we did.  I was ready to start showering regularly, feel clean on a daily basis, eat normal food, drink water from the tap and not worry about my health, exercise again, and live in my own house, among other things.  BUT.  Despite those things when I got on the plane to go home, I knew that I would miss Uganda, the fulfilling work I did every day, and the amazing, genuine, generous people I met.

And I was right.


The first few days, I was really really, happy.  I was overjoyed to see my family, who I had been missing dearly while we were away.  We got to spend an entire week with them, and it was great.  I love my family so much!  I feel like I can never take them for granted again, after being without contact (besides some emails) for 2.5 months.

The next week, when I realized that it was back to reality, and time to find a job (AKA lots of down-time).  I became very depressed.  I didn't know why, but everything was making me angry, and I was so unhappy and emotional.  Basically, I was a wreck.  I realize now that I was dealing with the change from a very busy and demanding (yet very fulfilling) life, to a very monotonous and event-less schedule (very unfulfilling).

I have to admit, I was soooo ready to come home when we did.  I was ready to start showering regularly, feel clean on a daily basis, eat normal food, drink water from the tap and not worry about my health, exercise again, and live in my own house, among others.  BUT.  Despite those things when I got on the plane to go home, I knew that I would miss Uganda, the fulfilling work I did every day, and the amazing, genuine, generous people I met.

And I was right.


Its weird because now that we are back in Utah again, it seems like Uganda was just a dream...almost like it didn't happen. But I know that it did happen because my perspective has changed, and I am so much more grateful for what I have (and I hope I'll always keep that with me).

 It is a world so different from ours.  It is different in every way imaginable.  And I miss it.

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Elephant Charge!

So, here it is! The famous elephant charge I talked about in this post.  
Pretty crazy! 


Monday, September 26, 2011

What we did in Africa.

Our amazing country director, Whitney, made this amazing video. She did an amazing job - It makes me miss Uganda so much!

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Wonderfully Rewarding Week!

This past week has been amazing. I feel like my whole trip here has been worth it now. I have been having a little bit of a hard time, feeling homesick, and wondering what I was doing here. But after this week, I think I am really going to miss Uganda.
This past week, we did an "empowerment" seminar for girls at a nearby secondary school (basically a mix of middle school and high school - there are 6 grades). I had been wanting to do something like this all summer, but just hadn't known where to start. I came up with 5 different aspects of empowerment: building self-esteem, learning a marketable skill, understanding our bodies/taking care of them, self-defense, and effective communication. Another girl in my group, Lindsey, had wanted to do a similar thing, but needed  ideas, and so we joined together and started to work on it. In the meantime, we got some of the boys in our group involved, and they developed some empowerment classes for teenage boys. We taught a 2-3 hour class each day to about 120 girls (broken up into 3 classes throughout the day) On Monday, we taught about self-esteem - it was a great lesson! I felt like we were teaching a lesson at girls' camp, because it was so fun. The girls really liked our object lessons and stories. I was so happy to start the week out on a good note. The next day, I had Richard come in and teach about looking for business opportunities. He did a great job, and the girls LOVED him! They laughed at all his jokes, and at the end, one of the teachers told me that they all thought he was a great teacher. After we ended the business class, we had an optional craft - and everyone stayed to learn it. I taught the girls how to make paper beads, and I think they had a really fun time. It was so chaotic trying to teach all those girls at the same time, but I hope they can use that skill in the future. The next day we taught about Maturation and menstruation - it was the first class I felt really comfortable with - I knew the material really well, and because I care about it a lot, I really enjoyed it. The next day was self-defense, and you know how passionate I am about that - it was such a fun day! I LOVED every second of it. I started out by teaching about safety, and setting personal standards for what is and isn't okay for boys to do, etc., and then after that, we moved all the desks to make a space in the room and started teaching some of the moves I learned in my self-defense class. It was great! The girls (and teachers) were so excited to learn, and they got a real "kick" (pun intendended) out of practicing everything. I had so much fun that day! The last day, we taught about communicating effectively in our relationships. It was a good lecture, not as fun as the day before, but still a good one. After we finished our lecture, we went to the auditorium and had a big ceremony with speeches and I even gave an impromptu speech (Africans LOVE speeches, so no matter what you say, they still think you're brilliant and give emphatic applause). Then, we gave out certificates (they also LOVE getting certificates) so that was fun too. THEN, we went to the home ec room and taught the africans how to make american pancakes - they LOVED that too! (Richard had talked about selling "Mzungu pancakes" on the street in the business class, so they wanted to try them).  The headmaster even suggested setting up a partnership with a school in the U.S. so that the students could get to know the students in America.  I thought that was a great idea! 

I feel like I just walked out of a perfect dream - I don't think things could have gone any better, or been more rewarding.  I LOVED this past week!!!

Pictures to come!

Monday, August 8, 2011

Safari Part 2: Craziness

I mentioned earlier how crazy transportation is here. Well, we tried doing public transport for our entire trip, and we really had no idea what we were doing. We were sooo incredibly lucky with the timing of everything - at first we were so annoyed because our taxi got 2 flat tires and what should have been an hour and a half trip took about three hours. We missed our bus to get to the next city, and had to take a different bus on a different route that happened to be leaving pretty quickly. We first thought we were really unlucky, because it was the most miserable ride any of us have ever had (there were 5 of us - me, Richard, my old roomie Jen, her cousin Meg, and our friend Remmick) The entire 5 hours we were on the bus, we were jostled and bumped and thrown around...it was like the Indiana Jones ride at Disney Land...for 5 hours. Richard was so sick after that...poor guy.
We met a guy named Eric who knew all about the area we were traveling through and to - he is a soldier who works there. I didn't realize it, but we were traveling through what was recently a very dangerous place to be- the Karamojo area. These people have been historically very hostile and agressive toward any outsider. Unfortunately, we found out thatwe were to stay over night in one of these Karamojong cities - called Kotido. Kotido was a very dangerous place to be about 2 or 3 years ago. We were scared, and we stayed in a shifty hotel that night (look at the pictures in our web album in the previous post), but we were safe, and it was ok! Eric helped us the next day, to find free transport to the next city, which was awesome - picture 16 people in the back of a tiny pickup truck, loadedwith all of our baggage, plus like 20 boxes of groceries. It was great - totally Ugandan-style. :) The rest of our trip there was fine, but on the way back, we had acrazy/scary time getting home. We took a really roundabout route toget home, because it was the only way we had a chance of getting home in the same day. I met a man (George Mark) on one of our busses who claimed to be a driver, and said he would take us all the way from Lira to Mbale.. When we got off the bus, we were swarmed by about 10 other taxi drivers who were also drunk, and they were saying all kinds of things to make us worry about driving with George. At that point,we had gotten in the car with him, and Richard was like "we are not going with them, let's get out." so we did, and George got so angryand started yelling. We were so scared! But it felt worse to get outof the car, and think of staying there, so eventually we got back in his car with him promising to take care of us and keep us safe. We were all just praying that we would be okay, and after awhile, werealize that we were in good hands. We got home at 5AM the next morning, and we were so exhausted! It was such an adventure.

I am just so amazed at how everything worked out - it really can't have been by chance that we made all the friends that we did, and had a successful (yet frustrating) trip. I hope you all are doing well! We love you lots and miss you all! I will write more next time about our projects we have been doing.

Friday, August 5, 2011

Our first Safari!

A couple weeks ago, we went on a safari!!! It was exciting, interesting, and stressful. Trying to plan anything, especially vacations, in Uganda isveeeeerrrrry different than planning in the US. You never get astraight answer from people when you ask them questions, or you get conflicting answers, or you getpeople telling you what they think you want to hear...its veryfrustrating. And then with transportation - whenever people tell youit will take a certain amount of time, its always safe to add on acouple extra hours, so you don't get frustrated.

We went up to northeastern Uganda to do our safari - it wasone of the coolest experiences ever, and it was everything I hoped itwould be! It was just like being on the real-life scene of the LionKing. I loved it! We got to see all the animals we wanted to see,both from a distance, and up close! The very first night, when wearrived at our 'bandas' (little circular huts) we saw a whole herd ofzebras in the field across the road! We were so excited! They are socool looking! That night, we also saw a warthog, and a waterbuck.

The next morning, we woke up to seeing an elephant walkingthrough our campground - apparently, it had been 2 months since he hadlast been there - we were lucky to see him! We also heard later onthat there had been a couple of lions walking through the site earlierthat morning...ahh!!!

When we finally left on our morning safari, we were so excited! Theweather was perfect, and we had already seen a great variety ofanimals! We took it as a very good sign, and it was! We started outby driving through a herd of over 1,000 water buffalo, which wascrazy! We were completely surrounded! They are kind of funny-lookinganimals, and they are very jumpy - they would run away anytime wemoved too quickly. We also saw some giraffes and elephants in thedistance, and of course we wanted to see them up close, so we took offin our truck to catch them. We finally got close to the giraffes -they were right next to our truck, and we got some awesome pictures ofthem! Giraffes look so funny when they walk or run. But they arereally beautiful, I loved seeing them! Then, we looked to the otherside of the road, and saw a big herd of elephants! Unfortunately, wecouldn't get very close to them, but we were hopeful that we would seesome later on. We saw all kinds of beautiful birds there - big andsmall, and all sorts of colors. My favorites were bright red, yellowand bright metallic blue. Beautiful! Oh, we also saw a littlecrocodile - maybe 3 feet long - on the side of a water hole.

On our afternoon safari, we really lucked out! Almost immediately, we saw 2 lions on a rock a few hundred yards from the road -they were just laying there, relaxing. It was so exciting to seethem! Pretty soon after that, we drove up to a herd of elephants.Did you know that elephants are among the most dangerous animals to beclose to? Its true, especially if they have babies they areprotecting. Well, we were lucky enough to get within 50 yards of amomma elephant and her two babies! When she noticed we were closethough, she started charging at us...I never knew how fast an elephant couldrun! It was so intense! Richard luckily got it all on video, I can'twait to post it here (it'll probably have to be after we get home, since internet is so slow here) After that, it started pouring, and wehad to cut our safari short. We went back and it rained for the restof the night.

The next morning, we had to leave to go home, but on our drive out ofthe park, we saw some monkeys on the road and in a tree close to theroad! THEN, we saw a lion in the distance, tracked it down, andeventually, it came onto the road right in front of us, and 'escorted'us for awhile - it just walked down the road in front of us. We wereso excited, although we were a little disappointed we didn't get agood picture of him. But to our delight, just ahead, we saw two morelions just sitting on the side of the road, looking so relaxed. Oneof them was literally right next to our car. After awhile, he got up,crossed the road right in front of us, and got his buddy to get up andgo with him. It was great! We were sooo happy we got to see that! Ifeel like we were given these little tender mercies, all throughoutour trip - even though seeing animals up close isn't really all thatimportant, it meant a lot to all of us to be able to see them that closely.


Thursday, August 4, 2011

A little update

Hello Friends and family!

We apologize for not updating in a while! As you can probably imagine, things have been very busy. It’s crazy to think that we are more than halfway through our time here. 2nd wave ended basically right when we got back from safari, so we are now in the 3rd and final wave. July was the only full month we would be here in Uganda and it’s already over! We have been so blessed to have this amazing opportunity and we look forward to what the last three weeks will bring.

Projects and things have been very good. I don’t know if I have mentioned much about the Namatala Slum Ultimate Club that I started with a team member. Well, the Ultimate thing just REALLY was not working. The kids were catching on well, and enjoying it, but it was too difficult to keep control and the language barrier is a serious issue. (Yes, the official language is English, and yes, most people “speak English”, but that doesn’t mean that real communication actually takes place.) So, my team member and I decided to switch to Soccer instead of Ultimate, and things have been much better ever since. We’re starting to get a consistent group of youth and we now have two volunteer coaches who have started to conduct practices (which is good news for us because we don’t know jack about Soccer). In addition to those good things, the municipality is interested in our project and is wanting to help fund it which is very good news. So things are going well with that. Namatala is a very large slum right outside of Mbale, and it is full of problems. Our sports club is designed to fight idleness which is a big problem, and to get kids off the streets and doing something worthwhile. We are especially trying to get youth who are not attending school to come.

Business projects have also been going well. Last Saturday I was invited somewhat last minute to a business convention held by business leaders in Mbale and surrounding areas. I guess Jonathan from Step radio had told some people about what we were doing, and they were intrigued and insisted that we come to this meeting of about 100 business persons. I was naturally pretty excited for this opportunity to network. So the invitation said to be at Mt. Elgon Hotel at 2pm prompt so we were there at 1:55pm. We were among the first 5 people there, and they weren’t even finished setting up yet. They didn’t actually start the meeting until 3pm. I knew about “African time”, but I thought that things would be a little bit different with this being an important business meeting and what not. I was also informed that I would be giving a speech and they asked me how much time I needed. I told them I wasn’t prepared so maybe five minutes or so, so they told me I had twenty. Thanks….. I had about two minutes to prepare, but I think that things went pretty well. The meeting itself was one of the more boring I have attended. Unfortunately, the majority of it was not in English. And, we thought that the meeting would last two or three hours, but it lasted six. The main highlight was this crazy guy we met at the beginning who kept telling us he was the mayor and who wrote for us a whole page of contact information. Anyway, at random intervals in the meeting when it would be quiet, he would stand up and yell “sank you vedy much!” holding two thumbs ups and then mutter a bunch of other unintelligible stuff and sit down. Also, at the end of the meeting there was a dinner. That was also an experience. I think I literally almost got trampled in the mad dash to the food line. Then when I got in line, about 23 people cut in front of me until this lady who worked at the hotel recognized me and for some reason thought I was important so she grabbed my arm and pulled me to the almost front of the line in front of everyone else. Once there, the struggle was not over. First of all, I was packed in there like a sardine, so it’s not like there was much opportunity for somebody to cut in front of me, but it still happened! There were six or seven large Ugandan ladies who managed one by one to wedge their booties between me and the person in front of me and booty me right out of the way! Don’t worry, I did eventually get my food, but it was pretty cutthroat!

While kind of on the subject, here are some funny/interesting cultural things about Uganda

- Organized lines rarely exist. If you are waiting in line at the grocery store, you will be waiting for a very VERY long time. It’s basically whoever gets there first

- African time is something we deal with every day. We regularly wait for people for a half hour or hour sometimes

- We eat basically the same food every day. It’s actually pretty darn good food, but it does get a little repetitive sometimes. The main foods are as follows: matoke (mashed up plantain bananas. Has a taste and consistency similar to mashed potatos. I think it’s pretty tasty), posho (boiled cornmeal stuff with a consistency of play-dough. Very tasteless, but good if it has a good sauce), beans (yum), rice (yum), Irish (Irish potatos), and chippati (yummy bread fried in a lot of oil). We also eat a lot of pineapple, avocado, mangoes, cabbage, and bananas.

- English here is funny. You can say “well done” when you are greeting a person. When you are saying that you’re basically assuming that the person has done something good that day. When you and another person are parting you can say “nice time” which I think is just funny. They also say “please” after everything. “Thank you please” and “okay please” are both totally appropriate and encouraged. Also instead of saying “kinda” you say “somehow.” There are many others, but those are the only ones I can think of right now.

- Trash cans don’t really exist a lot here. Funny example: we were waiting in front of a hotel near our house for a taxi to come get us and Megan, one of our friends, had just finished eating a banana. We were talking to one of the hotel employees and she asked if he could direct her to a trash to throw away the peel, but he was kind enough to take the peel for her. After she thanked him for his kindness, he took about four steps forward and chucked the peel into the bushes/road. We had a good laugh from that.

There are many more funny anecdotes, but so little time! We will write more, I promise! We love you all and are glad to hear from you whenever you have time to update us!

Love,

Richard and Marissa